| Location | Gorleston |
| Age | 63 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 1927 |
| Date of Death | 30/08/1990 |
| Visitors | 381 since 30/08/2008 |
| Creator |
my friend margarets dad alfred commited suicide on the anniversary of his wifes death,he loved his wife so much he just couldnt bare to be without her,he had to make the heartbreaking decision to turn off his wifes life support machine after 5days after she had a fall while walking her dogs,he could never come to terms with this,my dear friend lost both her loving parents within 12 months of each other,please light a candle for alfred and june either on this site or the ones their loving daughter created,thank you all so very much
Don’t Judge Me - by Unknown Author
Don't judge me for how I left this world,
Remember the love I gave,
A lot of grief will follow me
For the decision that I made.
Changes appear in everyone's life
Some good, some bad,
The one I chose for myself
Made everyone very sad.
But in time the memories will heal the hurt of hearts
And my presence will be felt by all with an inner peace.
Remember me when the sun is bright and laughter fills the air
And a moonlit night and a whisper of wind
Will tell you I am there.
Don't look down on my family
Or fill their hearts with blame
For my leaving them without good-byes
Has left them so much pain.
If I could go back in time
I would say a last good-bye
I would tell them to look to tomorrow
And for me, please do not cry.
love sheila
Reflection
Another day for you to wonder, another day for you to mourn
It wasn't my intention to go before the coming dawn
My pain was deep within my heart and troubled head
It wasn't my intention to go without words said.
My frame of mind seemed normal, or so I heard them say
It wasn't my intention not to see another day
I did not mean to make you suffer or cause you so much pain
It wasn't my intention to never see you again.
Despair and confusion left my aching mind unsure
It wasn't my intention to suddenly close life's door
If only I could give you reasons and brush the tears away
It wasn't my intention to leave you and not stay.
I did not mean for you to grieve, now left alone to cry
It wasn't my intention to leave you, forever asking why
As the burdens of life's worries slowly ebb from my heart
it wasn't my intention to tear your soul apart
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there is a group that offers support for all those that lost loved ones in this way...
http://groups.msn.com/welostourlovedonesthroughsuicide
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